I love you

[Kaiser7]

"I love you" are three small words that mean alot. but lately thosse mean nothing now. i guess this only applies to people who have had a bf or gf before. the question is that have you ever said i love you to someone and have not meant it?

there are some people who hurt others by saying this, and to them, its not to be taken seriously. is it right to say those words without meaning?

[Skwiddz]

I love you does mean a lot.
But there are also many types of love that could be shown by saying this.
Like you say I love you to you mother, father or siblings but that doesn't mean are romantically connected to them, same goes for loving you friends.
I have said I love you to many people, but almost all of them have been in the family or friends sense.
Romantic wise however I have only said it to a few people and I have meant it at the time.
I think it is really cruel to say it without meaning, a pointless thing that will just cause hurt, so I have made sure I have the feeling before saying it to the person.

[Sen-Chan]

I think Skwii is right, them 3 little words go along way but can be used in different context.. I say I love you to my friend, whos a girl, all the time.. because she is probably my most dearest friend, i do actually love her to bits.
but i have said it in a relationship before and not ment it.. only because I was getting fucked around and it kept me getting lucky and whatnot xD
but i never say it, unless i have reason to or feelings to. :)
critisize me and whatnot, but.. its the way i am ^^

[Skwiddz]

I understand why someone would say it and not means it, so don't worry I won't criticize you. Some situations can make it very hard not to, and I have almost said it before without meaning.

I say I love you to my friends all the time, whether they are male or female, if they are my friends it doesn't matter. Well gender doesn't matter to me anyway..but I won't go into that here lol

[Aura-chan]

I have ended relationships with guys who ay I love you far to early, who dont mean it and think its just a word.

I only say it when I mean it so other them my family I have only said it to two other people a bf I was with for a year and my current partner. Other relationships I didnt feel that way so I didnt say it, though I still gave the relationships time to develop in case they reached that but I didn't.

I love you is something very meaningful and shouldnt just be said, I always make sure thats exactly how I fell. I takes a lot for me to say it as I am quite shy with these things.

My partner and I both share the same values and decided we wouldnt say it until it was truly meant.

When he said it to me I cried lol as I had been wanting to say it all that day lol

[Sen-Chan]

naww thats cute Aura ^^ - I do agree with you abit there, but my heart is too big, way too big..... And I gottalotta lovin to give xD
But I always have and always will fall for people easy, and if i get to know them, i fall even harder, im too strong to get hurt from it if it fails, but if it gets to that point of relationship i do actually mean when i say "I love you sweetheart ^^"

[Kaiser7]

Originally Posted by Sen-Chan

I think Skwii is right, them 3 little words go along way but can be used in different context.. I say I love you to my friend, whos a girl, all the time.. because she is probably my most dearest friend, i do actually love her to bits.
but i have said it in a relationship before and not ment it.. only because I was getting fucked around and it kept me getting lucky and whatnot xD
but i never say it, unless i have reason to or feelings to. :)
critisize me and whatnot, but.. its the way i am ^^

how funny Sen-chan.but i forgot to say the familiar version of the "i love u". and any how, i ask because some girl i no was crying because the ass of a guy she liked played her with four girls. i feel for her, so i just wish these kind of people would say it and mean it.

[Sen-Chan]

them sorts of people should be allowed to live in my opinion, sort of people i hate.
kick em in the nutttzzzz and give em a beat down >.> how i roll :p
bu yeah, the people who just play others for fools, are the people that shouldnt even get a girl/guy whatever their chasing. i know from experience that being played for a fool, is painful, and its an unexplainable anger that you get when it happens..
but in saying that, some people take like a man and deal with it, others dont..

if i ever saw a girl crying because she was played by a guy... well... tbh, ive been in fights for less, id defend her.

[cleaveice]

lolx..this kaiser is quite observant i say to ppl around him (i assume you'r a guy lolx..coz i dunno haha xD)
anyway lolx. that word can mean everything to some ppl and nothing to otherz lolx..ppl with sensitive emotions often take that rather too seriously..shame on those who use it recklessly LOLx! i never said it myself in my entire life lolx..haha .. so basically im not bothered by these stuffz xP

[Aura-chan]

Once a guy said it to me, we went to japan together, then he left me there half way through the trip booking only his flight home. When he got home he asked a friend of ours out...

I couldn't afford to book an early flight home so I stayed there for another week alone...he lied to me saying he had to go home for a good reason but wouldn't tell me what... I got back to find out it wasn't true and he asked her out...

It was scary being left alone in japan but i still enjoyed myself though I was upset he had left me...

This left me very hurt and I didn't trust guys for a long time....

now I am happy with the person I am with ^_^