What's troubling you in your life?

**Ryoga** · 08-26-2011 06:43 PM

@Shino I'm glad that you're feeling better and that you've made a decision about friends. But like I said before with them it really does sound like a self-esteem problem, I know it may not look that way but being egotistic isn't the same as having lots of self-esteem. You'd be surprised that the biggest jerks in the world have low self-esteem, they hide it by making others feel lower than them, and through that they get a temporary ego boost. So just choose carefully who your real friends are, and you'll be okay.:)

**Ryoga** · 09-01-2011 05:32 PM

Originally Posted by dannysong

I've been depressed lately but boarding school really helped me get over the hump. It's an environment that is conducive to real self-esteem, and more like the real world. I really loved the environment and I would exchange it for anything. Now my self esteem is back!

I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better. I've never personally been to a boarding school, and quite frankly i've never wanted to go, but it sounds like it suits you. Maybe it's not for everyone, but if it helped you feel better then it was worth it.:)

**ashanime91** · 09-03-2011 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by dannysong

I've been depressed lately but boarding school really helped me get over the hump. It's an environment that is conducive to real self-esteem, and more like the real world. I really loved the environment and I would exchange it for anything. Now my self esteem is back!

That's great :D me on the other hand have non at all... I have no confidence in myself.. but I have it in what I do, but not me as a person. I'm not good wit talking to people. Well anyways i'm glad to hear you're doing great :)

**Akatsurugi** · 09-04-2011 12:35 PM

now that i have only few more days left, i was feeling very troubled and insecure about going back to my uni....u see, its too far from my home...toooo farrrr....
in my uni, i'm always alone,working alone, reading alone, walking alone....and i hate that...i just cried last night thinking about why some of my friends (if they really can be called my friends) doesnt seems to make me feel better...whenever i tried to join in, they said such selfish things to me, like i'm such a bother to their "perfect little group world"...
and i didnt even get to stay at hostel...i 'm worried about with whom or how i should find a place to stay....no one even bothered to reply back my call or my messages...
as u can see, there might already some who knows that i'm also one of the disabled people....but in the real world, i pretend like i'm one of them...perfectly normal....i dont want to be pitied....
God...how i miss my best friends so much....we"ve been separated for such a long time... i really need someone to comfort me...now i'm back to teary eyes again....sorry...just expressing my troubling life here...

**ashanime91** · 09-04-2011 06:09 PM

Originally Posted by Akatsurugi

now that i have only few more days left, i was feeling very troubled and insecure about going back to my uni....u see, its too far from my home...toooo farrrr....
in my uni, i'm always alone,working alone, reading alone, walking alone....and i hate that...i just cried last night thinking about why some of my friends (if they really can be called my friends) doesnt seems to make me feel better...whenever i tried to join in, they said such selfish things to me, like i'm such a bother to their "perfect little group world"...
and i didnt even get to stay at hostel...i 'm worried about with whom or how i should find a place to stay....no one even bothered to reply back my call or my messages...
as u can see, there might already some who knows that i'm also one of the disabled people....but in the real world, i pretend like i'm one of them...perfectly normal....i dont want to be pitied....
God...how i miss my best friends so much....we"ve been separated for such a long time... i really need someone to comfort me...now i'm back to teary eyes again....sorry...just expressing my troubling life here...

QAQ you poor baby... I'm sorry.. and yeah they wouldn't be called friends.. well at least that's what I think.. just think of it this way you're not there to make friends but if you do then that's fine.. just stay focused on your studies and all the rest will work out for you ^_^ and remember always be yourself... and if you don't who is going to other than you :D *hugs*

**Akatsurugi** · 09-04-2011 10:03 PM

yeah, i'm better now...
but my trouble still wont go away....
i'm always a little lagged behind...i was supposed to register my course and my uni payment yesterday but no one even bother to tell me that...
i just found out just now from one of the senior...*sigh* now i'm in a lot of trouble n i have to settle it fast...

**Shino166** · 09-05-2011 02:19 PM

@aka-chan:

I will destroy those so called friends of yours, how can they say your a bother and disturb their world, that makes me mad just thinking about it....hey if you're alone all the time maybe it's better that way, better to be alone than with ill company that's what I say. And I agree with Asha, concentrate on your studies, if you meet some one there that respects you for who you are then good, if not, you can find them else where.
And about your lagging, that's normal, and will probably happen a couple more times, It happened to me a lot in my firsts semesters, had to run around at the last minute to fix it, hell it even happened this semester, I'm almost an Engineer and I still made a boo boo xD....just remember, if a problem has no solution, then don't worry because there's nothing you can do, if it does have a solution, also don't worry because it will all work out ;)

**ashanime91** · 09-05-2011 02:34 PM

Originally Posted by Shino166

@aka-chan:

I will destroy those so called friends of yours, how can they say your a bother and disturb their world, that makes me mad just thinking about it....hey if you're alone all the time maybe it's better that way, better to be alone than with ill company that's what I say. And I agree with Asha, concentrate on your studies, if you meet some one there that respects you for who you are then good, if not, you can find them else where.
And about your lagging, that's normal, and will probably happen a couple more times, It happened to me a lot in my firsts semesters, had to run around at the last minute to fix it, hell it even happened this semester, I'm almost an Engineer and I still made a boo boo xD....just remember, if a problem has no solution, then don't worry because there's nothing you can do, if it does have a solution, also don't worry because it will all work out ;)

Yep, yep ^ agreed

**Akatsurugi** · 09-05-2011 03:20 PM

@aka-chan:

I will destroy those so called friends of yours, how can they say your a bother and disturb their world, that makes me mad just thinking about it....hey if you're alone all the time maybe it's better that way, better to be alone than with ill company that's what I say. And I agree with Asha, concentrate on your studies, if you meet some one there that respects you for who you are then good, if not, you can find them else where.
And about your lagging, that's normal, and will probably happen a couple more times, It happened to me a lot in my firsts semesters, had to run around at the last minute to fix it, hell it even happened this semester, I'm almost an Engineer and I still made a boo boo xD....just remember, if a problem has no solution, then don't worry because there's nothing you can do, if it does have a solution, also don't worry because it will all work out ;)

lol...hahaha....thanks for making me feel better both u and ashanime....i believe you.... *if its not, i'll stab ur trees....* joking~ XD